Meeting the Right Guy After a Break Up

Every woman wants to find Mr. Right sooner or later, especailly after you've been through a tough break up and the disappointment of a failed relationship. If you still haven’t found your dream partner, don’t worry! Meeting and marrying the man of your dreams is well within your reach.

Finding Mr. Right is not really difficult. Other women have done it, so why not you?  Regardless of how your last break up went, don't lose hope!

You need to follow a few simple tips to meet your dream man.  

1. What type of man are you looking for?  

The stupidest thing you can do is to search for a man without knowing who or what you are searching for. So take a pencil and a notebook and write the answers to the following questions: 

What sort of man are you looking for? 

What does he look like? 

What sort of career does he have? 

What sort of character does he have? 

What are his interests, tastes, and preferences?  

Write down everything and get the pen picture of your dream partner clear in your mind. This simple exercise makes the task of finding your dream partner much easier.  

2. Where would you find this man?  

On a fresh page of your note book, make a list of all the places where your dream partner might hang out. Do you think you might find him at a gym or at a party or in a church or in the library? Do you think this man might try to find you online?  

The biggest mistake you can make is to try finding your partner in the wrong place. Since you now know your dream partner better, you should be able to imagine where you might find him.  

3. How should you dress to attract this man? 

Fill your wardrobe with the type of clothes that your dream man will love. You don’t want to dress in an overtly sexy manner because you might attract the wrong type of man. At the same time, you don’t want to be a prude and repel all the eligible bachelors around you.  

4. How should you behave with your dream guy? 

Men love to conquer; so act just a little difficult to catch. But don’t overdo it and cause your man to back away in disappointment. You should know how to give the green signal at the right time. The trick is not to appear too needy and emotional and, at the same time, avoid being unapproachable.  

Let your man be the first one to kiss, make love, and propose. Many men still love to act out this traditional gender role. Your job is to help the process by hinting that you enjoy being with him.

5. How soon should you have sex? 

How soon you should have sex depends on you and the situation. Some relationship experts would advise you to wait till you are sure of your relationship. Just remember that you don’t HAVE to marry a man just because you had sex with him. If the relationship turns sour after physical intimacy, just let it go.  

6. Is there only one Mr. Right?  

Many women think that there can be only ONE Mr. Right. This isn’t true! There can be many men with whom you can be perfectly happy. However, nobody is perfect, even Mr. Right. And this Mr. Right of yours might be anywhere; he might even be the guy next door.   

Observe the man you date carefully. How does he behave? Do you like the way he treats you and others? Do you share the same values, interests, and belief systems? Do you respect each other? Do you feel comfortable with each other? Does the man have plenty of self-confidence, a warm smile, and a great sense of humor?  

If you answer to these questions is “yes,” CONGRATULATIONS!! You have found Mr. Right!